“The idea of “going back and forth” implies some whim, where one day a person will start hormones and/or have surgery, and the next, that person will go back to his or her original sex and gender, then a little while later will start up the process again, then go back, and so on down the line.

This really doesn’t happen. There are people who go back and forth with regard to gender expression and identity, and this can even occur on a day-to-day basis, but this is not the case with medical transition. The vast majority of people who medically transition couldn’t imagine going back and would be truly destroyed if they were forced to do so.”

11 April Permalink

“When I was in high school, I learned there was a code to same gender loving life. You were either masculine or femme, a stud or her girlfriend.
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How can we expect to create healthy men and bois, if they live in a society where asking for help is met with punishment and enforced shame?

Is there room for vulnerability in masculinity? We must make room.”

5 April 1 Permalink

“Please help spread the word – we’re doing a second round of casting for the erotic documentary Doing it Again specifically looking to cast scenes of trans women with trans partners.  We’re looking for couples, friends, fuckbuddies, and individuals willing to be paired with someone – yes that includes trans men applying individually! ”

7 March Permalink

“I’m not talking about mustache twirling, KKK-grade, Hitler level racism that’s so obvious anyone with any sense of human decency would banish it from their mind.

I’m talking about the “little” things, like the fetishization of black men by gay white men, the stigmatization of Asian men by gay men of other races, mainstream LGBTQ campaigns with little racial awareness, and racial “preferences” that can be innocuous, but at times reflect an underlying prejudice.”

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9 February 14 Permalink